ISN’T THE LABOUR PAIN INDISCRIMINATE?
When he is told of the new born baby girl, he FROWNS and DEMANDS to know why she can’t bring forth a BABY BOY. The woman is at PAINS to EXPLAIN what happened. He is FOOLISH ENOUGH to PLANT a female seed and expect a male one. UNFORTUNATELY none of the two HAS ANY CONTROL over the eventuality of their sexual act that LOVELY NIGHT. The Arabs BURIED them ALIVE. My luo brothers called them SQUIRRELS (as in; they are useless) a WOMAN who only HAS female children isn’t a HAPPY MAMA. A man in whose house are only female children is a LAUGHING STOCK before his peers. Who BEWITCHED OUR PEOPLE anyway? You love THEIR MOTHER, enjoy HER TREAT in the fall of the NIGHT, enjoy her kitchen SERVICES and HATE her DAUGHTERS? Is that even rational? The Lord Almighty gives you children as he pleases. Boys, girls, boys and girls or he makes you BARREN or STERILE and all these are JUSTICE to you. Islam eventually set the record STRAIGHT: female kids are REAL ASSET. HONOUR them, TREAT them well, FEED them and be HAPPY with them. They are FUTURE WIVES too, their HUBBIES are WAITING please. I love my daughters and I need 30+ MORE daughters. hope that’s not too ambitious.
حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ يَزِيدَ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا حَرْمَلَةُ بْنُ عِمْرَانَ أَبُو حَفْصٍ التُّجِيبِيُّ، عَنْ أَبِي عُشَّانَةَ الْمَعَافِرِيِّ، عَنْ عُقْبَةَ بْنِ عَامِرٍ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَقُولُ: مَنْ كَانَ لَهُ ثَلاَثُ بَنَاتٍ، وَصَبَرَ عَلَيْهِنَّ، وَكَسَاهُنَّ مِنْ جِدَتِهِ، كُنَّ لَهُ حِجَابًا مِنَ النَّارِ.
‘Uqba ibn ‘Amir reported that he heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, “If someone has three daughters and is patient with them and clothes them from his wealth, they will be a shield against the Fire for him.”
Al-Adab Al-Mufrad (Looking after girls)
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 76
In-book reference : Book 4, Hadith 1
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