Wow I’ve heard of so many divorces this month alone that have occurred due to in law interference. Why do mothers want their sons to get married if they’re not gonna allow them to live their lives happily with their wives? I would never do that to anybody’s son.
“Causing trouble between Muslims is a major sin that corrupts intentions in people’s hearts, spoils relationships between people, and spreads mischief in the land.”
I honestly take some comfort in thinking that there’s a special place in the depths of hell for women who oppress their daughter in laws and cause grief to a marriage. This is dhulm.
And what annoys me the most is when scholars advise oppressed women to continue tolerating heaps of shit and just “make sabr”
Oh and to “always be respectful no matter what.” Hell no, respect is earned and I will not be respectful to people who do not respect me, thank you very much. By tolerating bad behavior you’re effectively enabling more bad behavior.